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About Delane

Delane Chaffin
Specializing
in:

 

Teaching and understanding the pros and cons of any relationship

 

My Story

 

A little bit about me.

As the second child of a single divorced mother I was a lot to handle. My mother and father split up when I was very young but still old enough to remember.

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We lived on four acre's of land and my brother and I had everything from a jungle gym to a merry-go-round. Life was simple. Our mother was a beautician and had a small shop right next to the two bedroom trailer that we lived in. Even though we as a family didn't have much money, my mom always provided the best that she could for us.

 

Throughout the years I started getting older even though I didn't mature very well. I remember dating here and there but like any other teenager I found it hard to be content with the other person.

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Skipping forward to my junior high years, I was constantly picked on for my feminine way of expressing myself. I always knew that I was different but I didn't care. By the last year of junior high I was outed by the band director and my physical Ed. teacher. To make that long story short I was dating a guy from another school and he knew the band director who had worked for the school he attended.

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Relationships came and went like seasons. With each one I took in something different, something knew to apply towards the next relationship. In turn I would go on to continue learning more and more about myself and how to better a relationship.

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I remember one day I was sitting at home and received a call from a guy I had once dated. He was calling me to talk about the relationship that he was in and was asking me advice on what he should do. I explained to him the situation and gave him the advice as to what he needed to do and how to handle it. Two days later he called back and was even more miserable than before. I asked him if he had used the advice I gave him and his answer was "No". He must have learned something from the phone conversations that we use to have because today he is in a happy healthy relationship with his partner.

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