1.  We as human beings are all different. You very rarely will find someone who thinks like you do which is why the age old saying is opposites attract. Take some time to get to know the person before jumping on the band wagon. You may or may not find that you are compatible.​

2. Once you have found that person that you are compatible with is then only then do you set your boundaries. Boundaries are something that helps to maintain a balance between your time and their time. Without support there is no balance.

3. Respecting each other should never be an issue. With respect for one another you start to become trusting.

4. Togetherness is something that must happen often. You need that alone time together to connect and make conversation about your feelings, worries, happiness, etc.

5. If you have not become intimate with your partner then thats something that needs to happen. 30% of your relationship relies on skin on skin contact. This lets your partner know that they are there for you and only you. This doesn't necessarily mean that you need to have intercourse, but some foreplay might just be the key.

6. Once you have established your boundaries, respectfulness, and balance don't stop there. Everyday we as humans learn something new about our partner. There are sometimes that you may not want to do what your partner wants to do but in this case we call it Compromising. We can't always have our cake and eat it to.

7. Decision making should be made between the two of you. Never leave the other person out of something that has to do with the both of you. 

8. Sometimes we take the wrong approach to situations which can cause awkward moments and lead to anger but also regret. Maybe you had a bad day and you have some built up anger. You went the whole day without letting go of it only to come home and let it out on your partner.... Think before you React. It wasn't their fault. Resolve your issues before they reek havoc. 

9. Take the time out of your day to do something nice for one another. Whether it be making dinner for the other one or leaving a nice little note by the coffee pot.... It's always the little things that matter most.

10. Kindness never fails. Listen to your heart because the heart knows what it wants. Do unto others have you would have others do unto you.

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